Grapevine: n. the grape-bearing vine plant.; (colloq.) a person to person means of secret communication. Connection: n. a link; the act of uniting, or state of being united; that which connects; a kinsman. Welcome to my little corner of the blogosphere. It's about me and my random musings on what's going on in my world..and the world around me.
Saturday, April 29, 2006
The Latest Fashion Trend?
I'm not a football fan, so I could care less who they pick. However, I don't live in a cave either, so I have been sort of keeping up with the story. The subject comes up at the salon occasionally and I need to at least know a little about what's going on in the sports world.
Anyway, as I opened the paper this morning, there, emblazoned across the front page, were the pictures of all three athletes; Vince, Reggie and Mario Williams. All three are handsome, clean-cut looking young men. I'm sure their mothers (and fathers) are extremely proud of them. Then something about each one caught my eye. All three were sporting sparkling diamond studs in both ears! I'm guessing they are at least 2-3 carats each. Which leads to my question(s): What is up with that? Have earrings re-placed gold chains? Are they the real thing or CZ's? Were they a gift or is that the first thing they buy when they start raking in the cash? Does anyone else think it looks weird for a guy, especially a big hulking football player, to wear big ole diamond studs in both ears? I'm not trying to be mean, just making an observation. I'm curious about this strange phenomenon purely from a fashion standpoint, that's all.
One thing's for sure, after signing a $54 million 6 year deal, you can bet Mario Williams won't be wearing no honkin' CZ's!
Go figure, ya'll
Thursday, April 27, 2006
She's Gone
American Idol is about the only thing I really get into and keep up with. I love Boston Legal also. William Shatner and Candice Bergen are a hoot. In fact, the entire cast rocks! I tried to watch Desperate Housewives a few times, but just didn't get interested. I stopped watching CSI and all those other 'who dunnits'. They're just too depressing. I have enough to be depressed about with my own drama. I don't need to see people getting shot, stabbed and dissected every night of the week! Now, I could watch Food network 24/7! Especially Paula Deen. That girl can coo-ook, ya'll! I've also been keeping up with the Next Food Network Star. I predicted that Guy Fiori would win...and he did!
The World of Hair has been a little off the last few weeks because of the dreaded income tax filing deadline. It will pick up soon because of Mother's Day, proms, graduations and weddings. I's a fun time, to be sure. And, I make mucho dinero! I'm traveling to College Station on Memorial Day weekend to do a wedding party and attend the wedding. I think this occasion calls for a new outfit.
Bye for Now, Ya'll
Tuesday, April 25, 2006
PS: A Toe Story
The women who came in yesterday did have legitimate concerns about the cleanliness of the spa tub, as do I. I frequent this salon on a regular basis and feel certain that it is being kept clean and sanitary. I have even seen the girls cleaning the spa tubs after finishing a service.
My 'gripe' was they way in which these two patrons came in and interrupted the calm aura in the salon and then continued to make their presence known by being demanding and loud the entire time they were there.
So, TXGoodie and all you other gals, go get them tosies done, 'cause it's sandal time once again. Why not live dangerously and get some little flowers or a palm tree painted on while your at it. Hopefully, you won't run into these two pit bulls or any of their militant sisters!
It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Or, like my mama used to say "You can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar."
How's your 'aura'? How's your 'energy'? I don't care who you are or where you come from, some people just seem to go around with a dark aura, emitting negative energy. That's what I'm talking about!
Peace, love and good energy, ya'll
Monday, April 24, 2006
A Toe Story

I treated my tootsies to a spa pedicure this morning. That's not a bug on my big toenails, it's a little jeweled flower with black and gold metallic accents. And, check out the new thongs...er flip flops. I found them at DSW Shoes on the sale rack. Those are wooden beads on the straps, along with some shiny black ones in between. I'm ready for summer now!
I was all zoned out in the massaging spa chair while the technician was working on my feet. The music was 'contemporary soft rock', all was quiet and serene. Then, two 'sistas' came busting in, wanting pedicures. They immediately began complaining about the 'ring' around the spa tub and asking about the methods of sanitation used in the salon. I think the Vietnamese girls were a wee bit intimidated. In their quiet, gentle way they assured the two Big Berthas that the tubs were freshly sanitized, after which both hauled themselves into the chair and began soaking. Cell phones started ringing and loud talking ensued for the duration of my visit. They were also being very demanding and nit-picky with the techs. So much for relaxation! What ever happened to civility, sensibility and just plain old manners?
Ok, just one more thing and I'll be finished. At the risk of sounding racist, why is it that 'people of color' are usually the ones who behave in the way I described above? Why are the Vietnamese generally a quiet, reserved people? I'm just asking.
I know that God made us all, but some of his children just don't know how to behave in public!
Hope I didn't step on anyone's toes.. I really just wanted to show ya'll my freshly polished ones!
Oh well!
Sunday, April 23, 2006
A Good Day!
I am so blessed to have my church family and friends to draw strength from and to pray for me. I even have a few blogging friends who have shown their concern for me, offering a listening ear and prayers...Thanks, ya'll. I will keep you all up-dated from time to time, but I won't allow this to completely consume my every thought. Like I said before, this is just one facet of my life that I need to deal with, but I won't let it define who I am.
Now, on to other stuff. Life goes on...I worked yesterday, but got off early because I had two cancellations. It was a beautiful sunny day, so I went straight to the car wash and had my car cleaned up, inside and out. Is it me, or does a clean car just seem to drive better? I opened the roof and cranked up the music! That shiny black 3 1/2 yr old 300M was lookin' good, ya'll!
I called my good friend S, to see if she wanted to go to Joe's Crab Shack and get some bar-b-qued crab legs. She turned me on to them a few years ago when I was staying with her (that's another story). She was game, so off we went. Yum!
I went to church this morning. It was great. The pastor was out of town, so his father-in-law filled in for him. It was a good message, one I've heard many times. It never hurts to be reminded of these basic truths that he expounded on, though. The praise and worship time was wonderful. A time of refresing and renewal for the soul, giving all my worries and cares to God. We all have our crosses to bear and only He can make our burden lighter.
I made lunch, then spent the afternoon puttering around the house. I planted some dill seeds and watered my herb garden. Elvis was right there with me, digging in the dirt and getting wet from the hose. He smelled like a nasty little dog, so I brought him in and gave him a bath in the garden tub. He freaked at first, but finally resigned himself to getting his ears cleaned out! I had just watched a few episodes of 'The Dog Whisperer', so I was in control! LOL!
'The Man' is still here, but keeping his distance. I'm OK with this arrangement for now, but it does make for a certain amount of tension. Arghhh!
Night, ya'll
Friday, April 21, 2006
Your Linguistic Profile: |
| 55% General American English |
| 40% Dixie |
| 5% Yankee |
| 0% Midwestern |
| 0% Upper Midwestern |
5% Yankee???? I've never been any further north than Dallas, ya'll!
Wednesday, April 19, 2006
I've FINALLY Been Tagged!
Here are the Rules:
1. Write 6 weird facts/things about yourself in my comments box and on your blog, then tag 6 more people.
2. Leave a comment that says "You are Tagged" in their comments telling them to read your blog.
Here's my list, ya'll!
1. All my towels and washcloths are taupe and sage green to match my bathroom. I like them all folded exactly the same direction and stacked by color. I fold them warm out of the dryer so they don't wrinkle.
2. I am always 5-15 minutes early to any appointment or event. If I don't show up, I'm either dead or have been in an accident.
3. I will not ever leave the house with out my make up and jewelry on. I am always co-ordinated and matched, but I will wear a baseball cap whenever I am out running errands. It has to match my outfit, too.
4. I absolutely hate Pepsi and Dr. Pepper. It's got to be Diet Coke or nothing.
5. I never use an alarm clock. If I do set the alarm, I always wake up before it sounds.
6. I have ESP. I can 'think' of someone and they will call me, even if it is someone I haven't heard from in a while. This happens a lot with my clients. Also, if a particular person is on my mind for a few days, I will run into them while I am out shopping, etc.
OK, I'm tagging http://featherstickle.blogspot.com/; Lynda at http://lkscherf.blogspot.com/ ; http://tanlucypez.blogspot.com/ ; http://www.dietcokeisgreat.blogspot.com/
I'm only tagging 4 people. Thanks for playing along, ya'll
Monday, April 17, 2006
History Repeats Itself
It's true, I chose to take this route again. I've even heard it said that "The road to hell is paved with good intentions", now I believe it!
Today, I layed my cards on the table . To quote Dr. Phil, "It is what it is". "You can't change what you don't acknowledge". Well, the dream is over, I'm no longer in denial. At least I can say I really did all I could. I took all I could. It's time to move on....
At times like this, I always seem to think of songs that speak of how I feel.
Here's a few that came to mind today:
- 'It's Too Late' by Carole King
- 'The Famous Final Scene' by Bob Seger
- 'Get Over It' by Don Henley
- 'Dirty Pool' by Stevie Ray Vaughn
I won't go into all the gory details of how it came to this. Suffice it to say that my Mama didn't raise no fool. Although, lately I have felt a little foolish for being sucked back in, I have recovered. I'm OVER it! If you can't play nice, I ain't gonna play with ya no more! Put that in your pipe and smoke it, Mr. Man!
So, now that I've cleared the air around here and mailed off my taxes, it's time to make a plan. I've done it once and I can do it again.
Here's to a new song, a new dance and definitely a smoother road!
I'm OK,ya'll!
Saturday, April 15, 2006
Easter
We, as Christians believe that He died on the cross of Calvary for the redemption of our sins, that He arose on the third day and ascended into heaven. Tomorrow is Easter Sunday, a day of celebration.
When I was a child, my mom or my aunt would make my sister and me an Easter dress. We always got a new pair of white sandals or black Mary Janes, too. One year our dresses were made out of pink taffeta with tiered ruffle skirts. We were so cute! We would get up early on Easter Sunday and go to sunrise service, then go home and see if the Easter Bunny had left any eggs for us to hunt. Daddy didn't ever go with us, so he hid the eggs while we were at church. My aunt would make us the most beautiful baskets filled with candy and little yellow (fake) chickies. She would put Wisteria petals in with the green plastic grass to make it smell nice. Later in the afternoon, after we had eaten lunch, my brother, sister and I would re-hide our eggs and hunt for them again and again. We used boiled eggs back then and by the time we got through with them, they were pretty much destroyed. Bubba liked to throw them at us. Of course, we would eat a few along the way, along with those big candy eggs with the colored outside and white stuff in the middle. Mix in a few chocolate bunnies and jelly beans and it became quite a lethal combination. I really hated those big marshmallow eggs, but I would eat them any way. I was usually the first one to throw up!
And guess what! We could have EASTER parties at school with real cupcakes and goodies made at home by our 'room mothers'! No one died from eating any of it, either. We could even talk about the real meaning of Easter and not be reprimanded, lest we 'offend' someone. Wow, how times have changed.
I carried on these family traditions with my children. I learned to sew and began making my daughter's Easter dresses. I even made my son a tiny little Easter suit when he was two years old. I still have their first Easter baskets, packed away in a box somewhere. Wish I still had their little outfits, but I can't remember for the life of me what I did with them. Probably gave them to my sister or put them in a garage sale.
After church, I will take my decorated sugar cookies, brownies and pork roast to my sister's house and spend the afternoon with her and her family.
I'm going to try really hard not to digress back into that little girl who used to stuff herself with too many candy eggs, chocolate bunnies and jelly beans. I don't want to throw up all over my new flip flops!
Have a Happy, blessed Easter, ya'll!
Monday, April 10, 2006
A Hairy Story
My client who has been taking chemo still has a little hair left. She may have to get a hair piece before it's all over with. She wears her hair teased up in a sort of French twist bun. I hope it stops before she goes completely bald. She thinks I can work magic. I need more clients like her! Seriously, I rarely get complaints about my work, so I must be doing something right. If I do mess up, my clients are very forgiving and know that I will make it right. It's only hair, people, not rocket science!
I'm booked pretty solid all week because of Easter. I love it!
He is Risen, ya'll!
Saturday, April 08, 2006
The Exciting World of Hair
Before I moved, I referred my clients to several of my friends, including the two of the girls I work with now. A few clients decided to stay with them, but most wanted to come back to me. It can be an awkward situation, but we tried to reassure every one that what ever they chose to do was fine. We wanted them to feel comfortable coming to our salon, no matter which stylist they see. It has worked out really well, because we all know one another's clients and are able to cover for each other if need be.
Some stylists are very 'territorial' when it comes to their clientele. Fortunately, we have established a level of trust and integrity, and we respect each other's boundaries. The comfort of our clients is our main priority, so we would never 'fight' over someone! Believe me, I have worked in salons full of backbiting, 'clientnapping' prima donnas who think they are above folding towels or cleaning up after themselves. Crazy!
I'll be the first to admit that hairdressers are an interesting bunch. We are stereotyped as flighty, egotistical, and temperamental artistes. We dress weird and have extreme hair colors. We move around from salon to salon like herds of cattle. We're slightly twisted, or we wouldn't be in this business, I suppose. It's kind of like show business, in a way. We have to be *on* when we are behind the chair. We entertain, we listen to problems, we laugh and we cry with our clients. Not to mention, that everyone wants their hair to look like Jennifer Aniston's or Lisa Rena's! I used to work with a girl whose favorite line to that was: "You can't make chicken salad out of chicken sh**!" And no, she didn't say that to her client, ya'll. She'd say it later in the back room while we were all sitting around 'discussing' our clients and their hair.
And would you believe that we all have clients who are, shall we say, a challenge? We wonder, if they are so unhappy with their hair, why do they keep coming back to torment us? We think they need a good therapist, cause it ain't always the hair, honey. I swear, I have one or two who I should charge $100.00 an hour, just to listen to their problems. But seriously, that comes with the territory, so I just continue to listen and offer an occasional tibit of advice. Most people don't really want advice, anyway. They just want some one to listen. Everyone has a story and honestly, I love to hear them. Someday, I'm gonna write a book!
I love it, though. Every day is different. I get to laugh and 'cut up' (pun intended) with people I like, yes even the challenging ones. I make them look and feel better. They bring me food and gifts at Christmas and other special occasions. They share their most intimate thoughts and feelings with me, knowing that it will be kept in complete confidence. Besides, I forget half of what I hear because my hairdresser pea brain can't hold it all. I work people in when I am so booked I can't see daylight, because they have an emergency or have to go out of town. I get invited to their weddings and other happy occasions, but have also been to a few funerals.
I could go on, but it's getting late. I want to go watch Saturday Night Live. Antonio Banderas is the guest tonight. He's hot! I'll probably pass out on the couch after the first fifteen minutes, though!
Night, ya'll
Friday, April 07, 2006
Food, Glorious Food!
Our beautiful Sunday brunch of French toast and fresh fruit salad made from fresh pineapple, strawberries, apples, tangerines and green grapes. A garnish of chopped mint leaves enhanced the sweetness of the fruit. The french toast was drizzled with fresh local honey and chopped walnuts. Cinnamon swirl coffee and white grape juice were the perfect compliment to these delectable dishes.
This is absolutely the best chocolate cake in the world! 'Perfectly Chocolate' chocolate cake and frosting. It is so moist! Garnished with sliced strawberries and mint leaves it is heavenly, ya'll!!
Monday, April 03, 2006
The House is Quiet
Later that evening, daughter and I hit another local mall, still in quest of clothes. We hit the jackpot! We found a cute skirt for her at Foley's. We made our way to Dillard's and found the same skirt, but it was 10.00 more than at Foley's....cha-ching! As we were looking for a top to go with the skirt, would you believe she found another skirt! It was a cute swirly hemmed denim. Of course, it needed just the right blouse too, which we found. Then, I found a cool looking white pant suit. Loved it! Got it, along with a bright orange tank! Ok, then I had to have shoes to go with it. I found some cork wedges, need I say more? Why does every outfit need it's own accessories? It's called 'The snowball effect'. One thing leads to another! We are two peas in a pod when it comes to shopping, my baby girl and I. I taught her well!
On Thursday we went to Old Town Spring and looked around all the little shops. I found a cute animal print harness for Elvis at a pet boutique. The girls spotted a cute shop called Libby Lulu's. It was decorated in bright pink with chandeliers and girly stuff all over the place. Lot's of hats, purses and jewelry. Son in law requested Wunsche Bros Cafe for lunch. They have killer burgers and onion rings!
The girls stayed with me on Friday while their Mom and Dad went fishing with PaPa. We went to the hair salon and I colored my friends' hair who was visiting from west Texas. I took the girls to lunch at Landry's Seafood, then we stopped at Toys R Us to look for a board game called Sequence. We ran in Wal-Mart for a few things, including Floam. The girls said it was neat to play with, so I did what any Memaw would do, I bought them each a pack of it. That kept them busy for the rest of the afternoon. They went to the movies that night to see Ice Age, the Meltdown.
Saturday was the Big Bar b Que. I made potato salad, beans, salsa and guacamole to go with the brisket, ribs and chicken. We made a 'Perfectly Chocolate chocolate cake' for dessert, garnished with fresh strawberries. The recipe is on the Hershey's cocoa can. It is the BEST chocolate cake you will ever eat! My sisters and nieces came over and we all sat around the table, eating and talking. The girls had fun getting re-acquainted with their second cousins.
As we were sitting there, having dessert and coffee, my daughter shared the most exciting news! She and her husband have made application to adopt a baby girl from China. She had already told me earlier and I got emotional all over again. I am so happy for them. They feel very strongly that this is God's will for them and their family at this time. I pray that He blesses them with their baby as soon as possible. The process takes about a year
So, tonight the house is quiet. Little Elvis has been looking for the girls all day. He had so much fun with them, and they loved playing with him. The remnants of a fun filled week are still strewn about. Games boxes are still on the table, empty build a bear boxes and shopping bags are in the bedroom. A forgotten pair of jeans in the laundry....but it's OK...It means that they were here. I will clean up and put things away later. Right now I just want to savor the sweet memories of the past week.
Blessings, ya'll
Tuesday, March 28, 2006
The Drama Continues
We came back to my house and tried to teach the children how to play Yahtzee, then they all had to get ready to go back to their dad's and have family portraits made. The house is a wreck, but I don't care. It means that they are here, even if for just a short while. I want to savor every moment with them. I don't want to waste precious time dwelling on forgotten birthdays. My babies know that I love them and that's all that matters.
I am puppy sitting with Elvis' brother, Marty, my son's puppy. The two pups have been playing non-stop all day. I'd better go referee!
Later, Ya'll!
Sunday, March 26, 2006
So, how was your day? I went to church this morning just to sing in the choir. We sang an awesome song called 'Total Praise'. Everyone was totally into it..in both services. Wow! I had so much to do today that I snuck out after we sang. I still had to get some pillows for the new bedroom. I went to Ross to see what they had and found two nice ones for 5.99 each. I also found a dark green jaquard throw with fringe and a soft fleece blanket. I also wanted to finish hanging the swags I made for the kitchen windows. It all looks so nice, if I do say so myself! I'll post some pictures one of these days if blogger will co- operate.
Faith is so important to me. It's what keeps me going. So why do I get this knot in my stomach just about every Sunday morning? Why do I just want to get in my car and drive far away from here? It's all I can do to be civil to 'you know who' sometimes, the anger and disappointment are always just under the surface. When will it end? Why am I here? So many questions, but no answers.
Only God knows, I guess.
I hate being a drag, so I'll quit whining now. I'm going to concentrate on having fun with my kids this week. Can't wait to hug my babies and spend time with my sweet daughter.
Bye for now, ya'll
Saturday, March 25, 2006
I am sitting at this computer at 4:00am Saturday morning! I was awakened by sirens about an hour ago and I can't get back to sleep. I will be dragging by the time I get off work this afternooon. I know I booked myself too tight and will probably run behind all day. Oh well, they will just have to take a number and wait! I hope Loretta brings a new crossword puzzle book with her, cuz she will need it. I have my clients spoiled anyway because I usually keep on schedule. I know hairdressers are notorious for keeping people waiting, but not me. It makes me crazy to have clients sitting and staring at their watches, waiting like nervous cats! However, today I don't care! I've had a slow week and I need to make some cash since I will be off all next week.
I will pick up daughter and her family at the airport bright and early Monday morning, then we will be off to a fun filled week! They will spend the first few days with her dad and his wife. My son and his family are coming in from big-D so all the cousins should have a good time getting re-acquainted. On Wednesday we are planning to go to Galveston for a few days. I haven't been there in years, because I always go to the beach with the kids when I'm in Florida. We are staying at a friends beach house, but probably won't go near the water because it's still too cold. We want to check out the new Schlitterbahn water park or Moody Gardens. There are a lot more restaurants along the seawall, too. Then, there's always The Strand for shopping and eating. I'm also planning a family get together next Saturday at my house. I even invited the ex and his wife and two little boys. It can be awkward sometimes because of underlying issues, but the most important thing is that my kids get to see everyone and spend time with all their family as much as possible in the short time that they are here.
Hope the weather co- operates!
I probably won't be blogging a whole lot next week either. In fact, I won't be able to get to the computer because all their stuff will be piled up in this bedroom!
I got the herbs planted yesterday after I got home from work. I made a new wreath for the front door, got plenty of food and Blue Bell ice cream...I'm ready for the crowd! Elvis won't know what to think when he sees the girls! I'm sure they will love him and he will be happy to have all that attention!
It's now 4:30 am. I think I'll take nap before I have to get up and get ready another fun day in the world of hair. Yeah right! I'm just gonna put myself on auto-pilot and go for it!
Have a nice week, ya'll
Thursday, March 23, 2006
Crazy Weather & Stuff
Today I went to the plant place across the street from the shop and bought some herbs. I have a perfect location for an herb garden outside my kitchen windows. I found Italian oregano, lemon balm, rosemary, sweet basil, spearmint, peppermint and chives. I didn't get any parsley because it looked a little puny. I also like dill, but couldn't find any. I'll try to grow some from seed. I like to slice small pickling cucumbers and fresh tomatoes, add chopped dill, vinegar, salt and pepper and a little sugar. Let it all marinate at least an hour and served chilled. Yum! It will be so nice to have my own little bed of fresh herbs to cook with!
I haven't written about the world of hair lately...every one has been fairly easy to deal with...no weird stuff has happened to any one. Since I have had Elvis every one seems to want to talk about him and/or their own dog. I didn't realize so many people have dogs. Mini dachshund are very popular dogs apparently because I have heard lots of wiener dog stories. They are fun little dogs. I got in from work rather late tonight and Elvis was so glad to see me that he peed all over the floor! How cute!
I do stay busy at the salon, though. I had a new client come in on Tuesday for highlights. I didn't want to stay that late, but I just can't stand to turn down a new person. She was very happy with her new look and I got home just in time for American Idol!
Poor little Kevin Covais is history. I knew he was going to get the ax this week. I like Bucky, but I fear he will be the next one to bite the dust. Him or Lisa Tucker. And what about Kelly Pickler...Simon's naughty little 'minx'? Hmm?
Ya'll remember to keep Mike in your thoughts and prayers. His Mom is having some complications due to ongoing health problems.
Well, it's time to call it a night. I have another busy day in the world of hair tomorrow.
Later, ya'll
Saturday, March 18, 2006
Changes and Things
I have been busy decorating the front bedroom and it is looking very pretty. I decided to go with a French Country garden theme, in colors of burgundy, mauve, soft green and taupe, picking up the colors of the floral spread and pillow shams. I didn't have time to paint the walls, but since I will be buying a new spread and shams eventually, I wanted to wait. I bought an unfinished ledge shelf at Michael's, painted it a soft green, then antiqued it. It will be hung in the computer corner, displaying pictures of the kids, etc. I still need a curtain rod and new lampshade for the beautiful crystal lamp that was a gift to my daughter when she got married. I brought the pair of lamps back with me the last time I visited. They didn't fit in her new home and I didn't particularly have a place for them either, but I wanted to keep them because of their sentimental value. Besides, they were quite an investment back when they were purchased!
As I look around this newly decorated room and see the gallery of my children and grandchildren's pictures, it reminds me of how quickly time has flown by. We have all been through many changes, some good, some not so good, but that is what life is all about, isn't it? There's not a person on this earth who, if given the opportunity, wouldn't go back and change some things along life's journey. Life truly is like a tapestry, our experiences woven together like so many different threads and textures. The pretty side is displayed for the world to see...the 'ugly' side, with all the knots and bumps, carefully hidden from view. No two are alike, but each one beautiful in it's own way, knots, bumps, tangles and all. And the best part is that God loves both sides! He forgives us when we knot things up and if we will allow him, He can make something beautiful from the tattered pieces.
Change happens,
Life goes on.
Be thankful for every day.
Good, bad, come what may!
Time to get ready for church!
Happy Sunday, ya'll
Thursday, March 16, 2006
Let's Rodeo!
However, the main attraction is the entertainment. This rodeo goes for the big names ya'll. Alan Jackson was the man of the hour and he was awesome! Chronicle correspondent Joey Guerra gave him a pretty favorable review in today's Houston Chronicle, except for the dig he made during a cover of Hank Williams Jr's Texas Women. He inserted the line, "I'm a Cowboy fan/Not a Brokeback man," which drew cheers from the crowd. Guerra criticized Jackson for the statement, but apparently the crowd agreed with Jackson. Ya think? I think Mr. Jackson has a right to his opinion, so there, Mr. Guerra! Alan Jackson is a class act as far as I'm concerned. BTW, this is his 14th year to perform at HLSR.
We (The Man and I) had a nice evening, all in all. Except for a few minor tangles, we got along pretty well. Go figure... you think he's turning over a new leaf? I remain cautiously optimistic.
Yee Haw again, Ya'll!
Saturday, March 11, 2006
Spring has Sprung in South Texas
The days are getting longer, so there was plenty of daylight left when we got home from work yesterday. We put the leash on Elvis and went for a walk 'out back'. The woods are coming alive with new growth. This little pond is full of water from the recent rains, which makes the frogs happy. They were croaking and chirping. In a nearby bog I saw wild irises and pretty marsh grasses. I even found dewberry vines in full bloom. I hope I get to the ripe berries before the critters do! The chickadees were flitting about, feeding on the tender new buds of the oak trees. There were lots of fresh deer tracks. After dark the night before, we spotted five does feeding in the open field to the left of the pond. These woods are home to all manner of wild life and plants. It makes me sad when I think about the day that they will be destroyed in the name of progress, to make way for more houses or businesses. The land where my home sits was once wooded, so it is only a matter of time before this little section of forest meets the same fate. I know that part of the land is a county easement and greenbelt designated for drainage and runoff. At least that will stay intact. However, the open field were the deer like to feed is for sale. It's frontage is on the four lane main thoroughfare, so it is a commercial tract. The woods to the right of the pond have been 'logged' recently. The pine trees have been removed and sold, probably to make more lumber, to build more houses! Oh well, I will enjoy it as long as it is here, meanwhile, I will plant my own forest. I started today by planting two pine saplings and an oak tree. Happy spring, ya'll!
Monday, March 06, 2006
Of Spring and Decorating
I have a lot to do in the next few weeks to get the house ready for 'the kids' visit. My daughter and her family are coming for a visit during their spring break the last week of March. I still need to furnish one of the bedrooms. I am buying a white trundle day bed from a friend to put in it. I want the room to be a 'girls room'. This will also by my office/computer room, so I don't want it too frilly...more bright and fun! The rest of the house is OK, still no window treatments in the family room or kitchen. I just haven't been in the mood to deal with all that, what with all the drama going on in the 'domestic situation'. It seems to be settling down a bit, so it looks like I will be staying around for a while. I might as well do a little more decorating. The house will at least 'show' well if it ever needs to be put on the market. In the meantime, I can enjoy it. Besides, I am, therefore I decorate!
Well, little Elvis is pooped. He had his puppy class this evening and had quite a work out, but he is learning all his commands and making friends with the other pups. The wild and crazy chocolate lab came back, darn it. He shreiked and slung slobber the entire time. The other pups had a hard time concentrating because he is such a distraction. I wonder if it would do any good to call the instructor and complain, er discuss my concerns.
Night ya'll!
Thursday, March 02, 2006
Who Dressed the Dogs up?
It seems that the trendy thing to do these days is to dress your dog in cute outfits. So, should I buy Elvis a few t-shirts? What about a hat? On second thought, I don't think he would stand for a hat to be strapped to his head. He'd probably rip it off and tear it to shreds! He wears a tiny camouflage bandana around his neck sometimes, but I think a simple t-shirt would be OK too. I did make Elvis a cape and he tolerated it fairly well, but he hasn't worn it in public yet.
Peanut fills a need in my friends' life, as Elvis has done for me. So what if we put clothes on them. They love us unconditionally and tolerate our goofy behavior!
When I was a kid, we had lots of cats and kittens. My sister and I would put our doll clothes on the cats and pretend they were our babies. Or, sometimes we would just pretend that the cat was a baby wearing a 'kitty suit' if they wouldn't let us dress them up. Same principle, different era!
If Elvis doesn't like wearing clothes, I'll just pretend that he's a baby wearing a puppy suit. So there!
It's a beautiful thing, ya'll!
Tuesday, February 28, 2006
The last several years have been very stressful for both of us...And still are at times. This sweet little puppy dog is just what we needed to lighten things up, I guess. It's hard to be in a bad mood or be depressed when this playful pup makes you laugh and play. I still feel the need to keep my distance, but at least we are able to talk, mainly about the 'baby', but at least it's a start.
I have heard and read about how having pets is good for you. They can be very therapeutic in many ways. Yes, Elvis is just what the doctor ordered.
I had to go to the shop and work some today, trying to catch up from being off sick last Thursday. I always end up staying longer that expected because I have a hard time saying 'no' to people. I took a little longer with one lady because one of her foils bled onto her scalp and made a spot. I had to put some color on it to make it blend in. That made me run late with my next client, then she wanted her lip and brows waxed. I got done about 3:30.
I went next door and see the girls at the insurance office and ended up hanging around there for 30 minutes chatting with them. We got onto one of our favorite subjects...men. We can really get on a roll when it comes to male bashing! Of course, it's all in fun ( yeah, right!) and we all feel better after venting to each other.
I just read Mad Ethel's post about smells. Now I can't stop thinking about how good blueberry muffins smell while they're baking or chocolate chip cookies or bread...why am I thinking about food smells at 10:00 pm ? I am the only person in the world who gains weight when they're sick because I can't stand to eat salads and grilled chicken breast when I don't feel good. I want carbs, lots of carbs, like french fries, rice and butter, pasta, toast and jelly, ice cream. The man brought home 4 boxes of girl scout cookies, which are a rip off, but I absolutely love the thin mints! I ate a whole box!
Oh Lordy, I need to cut this off and go to bed. I'll probably dream about junk food all night!
Sweet dreams, literally, Ya'll!
Saturday, February 25, 2006
What a Week!
Elvis starts his puppy training this Monday evening. We have already been practicing walking on a leash. He seems to be 'getting it. We still need to work on not biting. He gets all excited when we play and starts nipping with those sharp little teeth. I just hope he doesn't freak out when he sees the other dogs. Especially the big ones. There are several labs and a yorkie about his size in the class. What fun!
I have been watching some of the Olympics, but I'm not as into it as I usually am. Chad Hedrick, the speed skater is from Spring, so it has been interesting to see a local boy win all those medals. Some of the people who come into the salon know his family.
The ratings probably went down when Michelle Kwan decided to drop out. They were probably counting on the competition/rivalry between her and Sasha Cohen to add some excitement. Then when Sasha fell, the ratings went with her. I'm sorry for her, but she did seem a little full of herself.
So, that's about all that has been going on in my world. Kind of boring, I know. I am beginning to get cabin fever, though. I will be so glad when I get to feeling better. Come on Spring!
Think I'll go cleanse and exfoliate my face, then do a mask. We seasoned women have to take care of our skin so we won't look all wrinkly and sh**!
Funny how we do all that stuff to look younger, but the men don't notice anyway, because they are all still looking for/at 20-30 year olds.
Weird!
Men can just grow a beard to hide all their wrinkles, the lucky dogs!
Hairy old men, yikes!
Peace Ya'll
Friday, February 17, 2006
Strange Happenings
She started showing me these shears that are ergonomically designed to help prevent carpal tunnel and tendonitis. As she demonstrated the shears and gave me her speil, we both kept mentioning various places or events that we could have known each other from. To make a long story short, neither one of us could remember. Is that weird or what? I know her from somewhere and it has been driving me crazy all week. I liked the shears, they came with a free pair of thinning shears, the price was right, so I bought them. Well, later that evening I began to wonder if she said all that just to build a rapport with me so I would make a purchase. Am I being overly suspicious ? Who knows? I need to call her because the shears aren't cutting as well I would like. Do you think I've been ripped off?
It's cold here in the Lone Star State! Winter has finally arrived. I can still wear my boots and leather jacket. I may even get to wear my hats (not western) this week. I have a black felt that looks more like a Zorro hat and a brown felt trimmed with a cheetah print band. The rodeo is coming up soon and it's always cold as heck during the chili cook-off. I'm not a 'kicker', but just about everyone 'goes Texan' during rodeo time. It's fun to drag out the western duds.
The entire city is consumed with The Houston Livestock Show & Rodeo. Lots of money being spent and partying going on!
Yee Haw, Ya'll!
Wednesday, February 15, 2006
I watched American Idol tonight. They are down to 12 guys and 12 girls. Looks like a pretty good mix of talent. I know a lot of it is a bunch of hype, but I still like to watch it. Besides, Ryan Seacrest is such a cutie.
Well, I'm glad Valentine's day is over. It was just another day around here. I worked until 7:00, then came home and ate left over pizza from lunch. The man must have eaten a sandwich or something. The atmosphere was obviously not romantic....no further comment.
Oh well, he's probably relieved that he's 'off the hook' as far as doing anything for holidays is concerned.
We talk about the dog and that's about it, because I just don't have the energy or inclination to even try to discuss any real issues. We both know the score anyway, so what's the use?
Nothing will change and I just get even more upset. It's a waste of energy! I'm afraid I have become rather cynical about matters of the heart. How sad!
I need to concentrate my energy in a more useful way, such as getting all my tax stuff ready, then working on getting the house ready for my daughter and her family when they come to visit at the end of March.
On a more positive note, here are a few interesting tidbits I read today:
'A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes'. by Hugh Downs
'The way in which you endure that which you endure is more important that the crisis itself'.
by Sam Rutigaliano
'A cheerful heart is good medicine'' Proverbs 17:22
Take care and be happy ya'll
Monday, February 13, 2006
Full Moon
I went out early this morning, about 6:45, to fill my bird feeders. As I glanced to the west the moon was setting behind the trees. I took one picture with the night setting, the second with the landscape setting. I like the foggy effect, but I don't know how it happened. The sky was clear but it looks kind of eerie, doesn't it? After the full moon rose last night the wind died down with the temperature about 28-30 degrees. I'm sure the deer were out and about, but this city gal wasn't about to go traipsing out in the woods to see what the wild life were up to. I leave that stuff up to my redneck son!
Sunday, February 12, 2006
A Cold Day in Texas
As I was reading 'Soul Retreats for Women' today, I came a cross this little gem:
When life isn't the way you like, like it the way it is.
The lesson is about being content with what you have and where you are. It suggests that one think about all the things you love about your life. Jot down a list of everything you already have. Ignore what might be or how you wish things could be in an ideal world, and cultivate an appreciation for life just as it is.
Philippians 4: 12-13 says; 'I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or want. I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength'.
Yes, certain aspects of my life aren't they way I like, but whose is? I do have so many things to be thankful for. I have two wonderful children who have grown into fine young adults. They are both married to fine people and have given me five beautiful grandchildren between them. I am healthy, my children and grandchildren are healthy. I have a great career, many sweet friends and associates. I have two loving sisters and a 'baby' brother whom I adore and who adore me.
The list goes on, as I begin to think about all that I do have. I really must try to ignore what might be and learn to appreciate life....just as it is. God will work out the rest!
It is dark now and there is a beautiful full moon, the wind has died down. I'm going to go play with Elvis, who by the way, is another sweet blessing in my life these days.
I love that puppy, ya'll!
Friday, February 10, 2006
Other that attending this event, all I did was work and take care of Elvis. He knows when I put up the baby gate that I am about to leave for work. Smart pup!
The world of hair was fairly busy, but rather routine this week. I wasn't booked solid all week, but that was OK. I had a few hours to kill on Tuesday, so I went to Ross and looked around. I found a neat black bag with hot pink lining for $19.99. Like I needed another bag, but the price was right and I loved the hot pink lining! I could even put Elvis in it and carry him around, ( not!). On Wednesday after I got my nails done I went to Stein Mart. I was looking for a black skirt or pants to go with the top I wanted to wear to the Fancy pants affair. I tried on several things and nothing was working. Then I found a sale rack full of black pants and gauchos. I tried on a pair of the gauchos and thought they would go perfect with my black boots. Plus they were an extra 30% off the marked down price! Bingo!
I finished off my outfit with a black beaded necklace, earrings and bracelets.
The weather is cold and windy! It is supposed to freeze tonight and be windy and cold again tomorrow. Brrr, maybe we are going to get a little winter here in south Texas after all. I need to go put some of my plants on the back porch and cover them.
Peace, ya'll
Saturday, February 04, 2006
We went to Petco this afternoon to buy a harness and leash. I found a cute little red sweater, but Elvis hated it. He tried to back out of it . So, I guess he'll just have to shiver in the cold when he goes outside to potty. He freaked when we tried the harness and leash, too. What a rebel!
I so don't want to become an obsessed dog mommy, but this guy is so adorable that it's hard not to. I just love him to pieces!
OK, I'll stop now with the doggy talk. My son came in town today to watch the super bowl with his dad. He's staying with my brother tonight so they can party. The two of them have always been very close since my brother lived with us when my kids were little. In fact, they are more like brothers instead of uncle and nephew.
Since I have no social life with the man, I'll make my own plans with my family and my son tomorrow. Elvis and I will find ourselves a party somewhere!
Party on, Ya'll!
What is up with all the police chases in Big H? Stupid criminals! The guy from Dallas who kidnapped his girlfriend and her baby got what he deserved!
And one more thing, all the Katrina criminals wreaking havoc in our city need to be rounded up and sent back to their crime ridden chocolate city!
OOps, there I go, getting all politically incorrect!
God bless our Police officers in the city of Houston, Harris and other surrounding counties!
Wednesday, February 01, 2006
Elvis & Me
I have been in all day today trying to get over a cold and sore throat. Elvis woke me up at 6:00 am this morning, so out we go to 'potty'. Then back in to have breakfast and play a while before taking a morning nap. Just like old times, I think, only this baby doesn't wear diapers. And guess where he sleeps? I said I'd never allow a dog in my bed, much less on my pillow, but this little weenie dog ends up practically wrapped around my neck before the night is over! Oh no, I've been suckered in.. I'm a dog mommy! I'm even talking baby talk to him! He is sitting on my lap at this very moment, taking a snooze.
A strange thing has happened since Elvis has been here. I didn't tell the man that I had gotten a puppy because I just knew he would gripe. When he came home from work Monday afternoon, Elvis and I were out in the backyard. I was pleasantly surprised to see a smile on his face when he came out to see this cute little puppy frolicking about. Needless to say, he was smitten. Elvis ran to him and won him over with a sniff and a smile! The ice was cracked a little, and as we watched little Elvis play I recounted the story of how my son and I located him and his brother Marty. Later after we came in the house the two of them were in the floor playing!
Hmmmm, what to think?
Almost time for American Idol!
Later, ya'll
Monday, January 30, 2006



Meet Marty and Elvis. Marty is the black one and Elvis is a dapple blue mini daschund.
Marty stayed in Dallas with my son and Elvis came home to Houston with me. When I saw my little guy, it was love at first sight! He rode all the way home snuggled up in my lap.
I gave him this teddy bear so he wouldn't miss Marty so much. Too cute!
Friday, January 27, 2006
I'm getting out of town, heading north on I-45 northeast of Big D to visit my 'redneck' son and his family. I call him redneck affectionately. He know he's one...he likes being a bubba. The boy hunts hogs and other varmints, fishes, all that nasty stuff. He can bar-b-que like no body's business. We like to get in the kitchen together and cook us up some groceries. It's fun getting away and relaxing in the country with my youngun's!
And no, the man won't be accompanying me, either. It's a shame that it has come to this, but I have valid reasons why. Maybe someday I can talk more about it, but not yet.
See ya'll later!
Monday, January 16, 2006
I read a few blogs today, while I was goofing off in between loads of laundry. Blogging seems to be a big thing with the 30 something crowd. I can tell by the content of the blogs even when they don't give their age. Not that age is an issue, I'm just making an observation. Some of the blogs are so creatively done....very interesting, witty and funny. I even made a few comments here and there.
So, hey, are there any 'Seasoned Women' out there in bloggerland? Let me hear from some of you boomer babes...you know who you are...I know you're out there! Ok, here's a clue...does anybody remember Woodstock? Who was your favorite Beatle? Guess what! He's still rockin'!
Mick's still struttin'. I saw Neal Diamond on Oprah today, even though he never was a fave of mine, he's still got it goin' on.
Ok, I'll quit now.
Must go check on The Bachelor in Paris.
American Idol is on tomorrow night. Yay!
Night, ya'll
Sunday, January 15, 2006
Anyway, back to the world of hair, I so love what I do! It was nice to see Georgia on Friday. She went and had her port inserted so she can start chemo this coming week. Her PET scan came back clean, so that was definitely a praise. She continues to be positive and upbeat.
My college girls have all gone back to school, freshly highlighted and trimmed. My teachers are back in their classrooms. Bless their hearts, I don't see how they do it. I mean, putting up with all the mess they have to deal with every day. I do hear some tales! Sounds like there are a lot of parents out there who don't have a clue, because their kids are totally out of control and they expect the teachers and administrators to teach the little creeps while refraining from any sort of discipline. I could go on, but I'm afraid any further comments would definitely be 'politically incorrect'!
Someday I MUST get started on my book.....'Tales from the World of Hair', or something! I know, I could call it 'Hairy Tales...a day in the life of your hairdresser'. I would have to 'change the names to protect the innocent, or not so innocent', in some cases. LOL!
My son called me today to invite me to a birthday party for his youngest boy. So, I'll be heading north on I-45 in a few weeks to the Dallas area. It will be nice to see him and his little family. I haven't seen them this since the summer. He and his wife have blessed me with three precious grand children.....two boys and a sweet little baby girl. Can't wait to play Memaw for a few days! My Ex and his wifey will be there with their two adopted little boys. That ought to make for a lively weekend! We get along OK, but he sure stares at me a lot. Wonder if she notices? Note to self: Wear new DKNY jeans, black western boots, black sweater and lots of silver jewelry. I think I need a new fragrance, too! Meow!!
I'm off on Monday's, but tomorrow is MLK Day, (no comment), so that probably means that the bank and post office will be closed. Won't be going downtown to the parade or participating in any of the festivities , though, so I guess I'll just stay home and get caught up with my laundry while I finish packing up Christmas. It's been kind of chilly, cloudy and windy today. Maybe it will rain tomorrow. I love to stay home when it rains and putter around the house. I call it 'having an ugly day', meaning no make-up, no bra, just sweats, a t-shirt and fluffly house shoes all day long. So, does anyone out there know what I'm talking about? What do you call it when you stay home and goof off/putter all day?
Think I'll go now, ya'll and read some blogs. Maybe even get brave and throw out a few comments!
Monday, January 09, 2006
BYE, BYE CHRISTMAS DECORATIONS
Anyway, back to the un-decorating, I have stopped for the night. The rest will have to wait until my next day off. Hopefully, I will have it done by Valentine's day! Speaking of which, can you believe the stores already have their Valentine displays up? Talk about overkill! By the time the day finally gets here, we will be sick of it. I'm not doing Valentine's Day anyway, Stupid little cupid, stay away from me!! Love sucks!!
I am so busy this week in the world of hair! I'm booked solid tomorrow and will even work some on Wednesday. Thursday, Friday and Saturday are filling up fast, too. It's always this way when I take a vacation, but I don't mind. I actually like being busy and making lots of money!
I went to Wal-Mart today, which I hate to do. I needed some birdseed and other stuff, so I forced myself to go in. That place drives me crazy! You have to walk all over the friggin' place to find the items you need and end up buying all kinds of junk you didn't need or intend to buy. I ended up spending $100.00.
Well, I did buy a few groceries, but still...... it's a conspiracy!!
The man is still keeping his distance, or maybe I'm keeping my distance. We're kind of like two cats, circling and squaring off. Neither one wants to make the first move, because when that happens the fur will surely fly and somebody might get hurt! Or, he stays in his territory and I stay in mine and 'never the twain shall meet'. What a trip!
So, How's things in your world? Oh yeah, nobody reads this, so I might as well try and catch the wind!
Ciao, Ya'll
Sunday, January 08, 2006
I saved so much on the boots that I thought I'd go look at clothes. I found a pair of brown knit gauchos and a camel colored sweater (on sale) that will go great with the brown boots. Then, on to the accessories where I found a cute little bronze leather purse and a brown belt with a silver buckle (on sale) . The 15 % off coupon can be re-used with each purchase of sale marked merchandise, so I save a bunch of dollars today!
Church was awesome this morning. I even went back for the evening service, something I rarely do. I needed to just 'worship' today and forget the cares of this world. I know that God will direct me in the way I need to go in making some major personal decisions if I just give it to Him. He has already told me to 'just be', to live each day in peace and joy, and trust Him to handle the gory details.
I'll start taking down the Christmas decorations tomorrow!
Saturday, January 07, 2006
Thursday, January 05, 2006
We got up really early Friday morning and went to Disney World. We started out at Magic Kingdom with the Cinderellabration. Son-in-law ran into a friend who works at Disney and he arranged for us to have a private session with Cinderella, Fairy Godmother and all the princesses from other Disney films. They were all breathtakingly beautiful, but I especially loved meeting Fairy Godmother. The grand daughters were awestruck, to say the least. We took lots of pictures, so I'll share some as soon as I get them all downloaded and organized.
After all that excitement, we made our way to Space Mountain. It was a fun ride, but I did get a little queasy!
After lunch we checked out the Rockin' Roller Coaster at MGM. The line was really long, but daughter and one of the girls wanted to ride, so we stood in line for TWO hours. I figured since Space Mountain didn't do me in that I could stand this one....WRONG! Scared the heck out of me! I was in the last car by myself with the two girls in the car ahead of me, screaming my head off and getting jerked all over the place. All I can say is I'm glad they have a bathroom right out side the exit!! Oh yes, and the ride lasted for maybe 60 seconds!
I wasn't about to try the Tower of Terror after that, besides, I had ridden it last time we were there. We then went went to the Philharmagic 3-D movie, which was really cool, a preview of the Chronicles of Narnia and then on to The Fantasmic show which was utterly amazing.
I love it! Can't wait to go back!
We all slept in the next morning, but then had to get up and get ready for New Years Eve! We made velveeta cheese dip, spinach dip, hot dogs 'n chili, etc, etc. We played board games while we snacked and waited for midnight. Son in law made a bon fire down by the lake and popped fireworks.
Those kids go non stop all the time, but I love trying to keep up with them and getting in on the fun!
So,.....Time to get back to the world of hair tomorrow. I'm booked solid, but at least I have lots of 'new material' to share with my clients. They will love it when I tell them I met my Fairy Godmother in person!


